I was struggling with my last breakup pretty bad. I could not figure out for the life of me what I was doing wrong. It was my third serious relationship that I thought was going to be taken to the next level. Each of the men broke up with me, and they all told me they did not want to. That made no sense to me, and it hurt to keep hearing that. I finally did an online search for Maidenhead counselling because I knew after weeks of thinking about what went wrong, I was not going to figure it out on my own.
If it had been my first breakup or even my second one, I would just figure that we did not match. This last one though was the most painful. I knew that I needed help to not only get over the absence of the relationship but to also figure out if the guys were right and I was sabotaging my own relationships. I looked at quite a few different counselling services before I determined which one I was going to use. I was having a hard enough time going down this route, so I knew that I had to feel comfortable with the person even before I met them in person.
I liked everything on her website, so it was easy enough for me to make the appointment to see the counsellor I chose. I met with her twice a week for nearly a month, and she was able to get some painful memories out of me that had to do with relationships. She showed me how I did not need to go down that same path as my parents or my two sisters. I would never have made these connections without her help, and I am so hopeful that I have not completely screwed up my last relationship. We are supposed to meet for lunch tomorrow, and I want to show him that I truly do understand where I need to change.